HETTY

Tag: General Interest

  • 1997!

    If you could relive one year of your life, which one would it be?

    So I have been thinking about my past, and there has been years I don’t want to do over again, but there were bright spots in those years. Otherwise, I probably wouldn’t be alive to be answer this prompt. 1985, 1991, 2009, 2015, and 2020. 2020 should be obvious why it was a bad year, although I did take a 12 day fun trip to Las Vegas and I didn’t get COVID.

    There are years I do want to relive, even though work stress and lack of a romantic relationship were common themes. 1994, 2008, 2012, 2017, and last year were good years relatively. There was still crappy moments, but enough was going on where I could cope well enough. I did have relationships and was in a better mood.

    I think I should single out 1997 though. I was 23-24 years old, was in the United States Air Force, and was stationed in the United Kingdom for over 2 years. Some Americans are lucky to be able to afford to spend a week vacation in the UK, but I was very lucky to be in the country long enough to go to London several times. And from 1996 to 1998 was one of the best times to be in the UK and London. And I was young enough to enjoy it.

    London is one of the best cities for nightlife, and I was able to go to London once or twice a month for the weekends. BritPop, UK Speed Garage, and French House music were popular in the country at the time. I went to dance clubs and concert venues to see the local acts. Not huge international performers, but big enough bands and performers that played on BBC Radio regularly. Most times I went alone, but other times with coworkers and I had fun.
    I did see some of the famous landmarks while in London. I wish that I had a better camera back then to be able to take photos, but at least I saw Big Ben, Westminster Abbey, Buckingham Palace, The Tower of London, and the Riverwalk near Thames. London as a city has one of the richest cultures and histories.

    I drank the local pints at pubs, and I got into Stout beers like Guinness and Beamish. I still like those beers, and I have them when they are available, and I can afford them. Maybe it’s not a good thing to have been drinking more heavily, but don’t regret it.

    More importantly, I had friends. Most of the friends I did have were military and civilian coworkers at the dining hall I mostly worked at on base. But we worked well together, and we would hang out at times after work. Sometimes to rent videos to watch together, or play video games. Austin Powers was released around that time, and we enjoyed that and even understood some of the references specific to British culture.
    It’s strange that I mostly hanged out with women, but they were good people.

    Oh, it gets better! Cuz I also had temporary duty in other countries like Denmark and Spain. The deployments were mostly NATO training exercises for one or two weeks, but I appreciated going to other countries that I probably wouldn’t be able to afford to go to otherwise.

    So last year, I had a layover at a London airport after spending over 3 months in Tirana Albania. It was for 8 hours, and I was very tempted skip the next flight to spend 3 days there to enjoy the nightlife and see how the country changed over 30 years. I decided against it cuz of cost, but I hope to be able to afford to go to London again. Even if it’s for 2 days or so.

  • I Watch Less TV and Cable Now.

    I Watch Less TV and Cable Now.

    What’s something you do completely differently from how you were raised?

    This is probably the biggest difference in my life now. Growing up in the 70s and 80s, I lived in a 2 television household. One TV was a smaller portable black and white television that I often watched in the kitchen or in my bedroom with my 2 brothers. The other color television stayed in the living room. It was too heavy for my brothers and I to carry it. Indeed, the television likely required 2 people to carry the television, or one very fit person with a strong back.

    So growing up, I watched a lot of TV shows and sometimes syndicated movies on broadcast networks. I saw some of the classic series over the years, and then some shows that may last one or 2 seasons.

    My family also invested in premium cable television and later a VCR device and video game consoles. Atari, HBO, and a Nintendo console. Even more time in front of the television. Probably a good fraction of my life was in front of the TV watching some of the theatrical movies, some made for cable series, playing the early more primitive video games. I was entertained enough back then.

    I still love some shows, like I’m still a big Simpsons fan. But over the past 10 years, I started to drift away from watching so much television.

    Maybe streaming services have a lot to do with that, having a laptop and smartphone changed my viewing habits even more. I replaced one screen for another.

    I don’t know exactly why my viewing habits changed. I think I became wiser and more experienced, and became more familiar with the tropes and cliches of TV series. Like I can’t really tolerate laugh tracks on sitcoms any more, cuz some of the jokes on shows aren’t that funny. Other times, television shows like dramas reference real life events, such as real life crimes. I can read about the unsanitized real life events online instead.

    But also maybe I spent too many days coming home from work or school, and ended up watching television or playing video games alone for hours. Not always, cuz I will still watch television with others, but it’s often sport games or a show or movie I’m not that invested in. I think my attention span dwindled over time. I have other interests now.

    So TL;DR version. I grew up in a 2 TV set household watching a lot of television and I eventually drifted away from that to the point where I barely watch any TV or cable programs. I’ll read online articles, go on social media, or play more simple video games on my smartphone.

  • A Lucky Find (Part 2)

    A Lucky Find (Part 2)

    What’s the best thing you’ve ever found randomly on the street?

    Sometimes I find money in the street, but it doesn’t happen as often as I’d like. I already wrote an essay/ short story about a time I found 50$ decades ago and was able to afford to go to a state fair. But there’s been other incidents where I was lucky and found money.

    Around 2011, I was working a different part time job as a dishwasher and still struggling (I was fired from that telemarketing pledge job in 2004 after 3 months), I was riding my bicycle at night from work  and again found money. This time 30$ laying in the grass. A 20$ and a 10$ , not in a wallet. Again, I picked it up cuz I desperately needed it. I spent that 30$ on food and the cheapest brand of cigarettes I could get. I was grateful at the time.

    But another incident was when I was more stable living on disability pensions and took a solo trip to Las Vegas. I was more comfortable, and had more leeway with my spending. It was my second time in Las Vegas, and I went in 2020 during the COVID pandemic.

    I actually didn’t gamble much during my 2 trips to Las Vegas. Maybe 125$ total, but between the 2 trips I won over 400$ playing penny slots. I take risks, but relatively low risks. I was grateful to have won money at all.

    Anyways, I was walking back from a convenience store, and saw a small object shining in the sun. Curious, I stopped and looked closer. It appears to be a coin of some type in a small transparent plastic case. I picked it up. It looked like a small gold bullion with an imprinted buffalo and some printing. Huh.

    It took me a month of online research to find out what it was. It’s not solid or 24 carat gold, but rather a gold plated copper bullion. Not much gold, not worth much money. Maybe worth 6 or 7$. It contains roughly 5 milligrams of 24 carat gold.

    I still have it, cuz it’s not really worth much. However, if I get really desperate again, I could try to sell it. It did take me a month of online research to identify the coin and it’s actual value. If I was desperate enough to be shady, and could find a specific kind of buyer……..🤔

  • My Talk Therapist Pulled Through

    What’s the kindest thing someone has ever done for you?

    I really had to think about this prompt, cuz acts of kindness towards me seem to be rare, or at least hard to recall outside of my own family. But I’m a disabled US veteran, and I needed help back in 2011. I was able to get it at a VA hospital thanks to the medical staff.

    So back in 2011, I was in bad shape, but I didn’t want to admit it. I wanted to “pull myself by my own bootstraps” even though I was underemployed, had student loan debt I was afraid that I couldn’t repay without great difficulty, had and currently have severe depression and a good level of anxiety.

    I smoke heavily, toked and drank with what little money I had. I had to be hospitalized for mental health issues once before, and I didn’t want to be hospitalized again. I’ll figure it out, I thought, even though I was homeless again. I couldn’t make rent for a studio apartment.

    I ended up at a veterans group home, and I started to see a psychologist I’ll call Dr. Sandra. Her first name, but I’ll withhold her last name. A blonde middle aged woman. Over time, I would talk through my problems. I had a lot. I sometimes was harassed and bullied at work and school. I had deaths in the family. I struggled to find and keep jobs, after my time in the service. I have physical, psychological, and it later turned out neurological disabilities.

    I found out that I’m neurodiverse, but the medical staff didn’t notice it until I gradually noticed patterns, did some reading, and brought it up to the doctors. After group therapy sessions and medical tests, it turns out that I had several diagnoses, including hearing impairment and a type of autism.

    Anyways, Dr. Sandra encouraged me to file for disability benefits, she listened to what I had to say and offered advice to problems I had, and she taught group sessions with other veterans that gave better life skills than what I had before. I had to file a appeals claim after my disability case was denied the first time, and she wrote a letter to social security administration listing the various disabilities I’ve had, and why I can’t work full time anymore.

    I was approved for disability pensions. A modest income, but it is more than my income during my working life. Yes, even more than when I was active duty. I’m grateful that I met Dr. Sandra, and she gave me help and a listening ear for when I needed it.

    Do I still have problems and worries? Oh yes. But I’m able to cope better, I volunteer, donate, and help people when I can, and I have better problem solving abilities than before. And I have changed over time. I’m not as passive as I tried to be before, but I have learned that it’s ok to walk away if some issue is stressing me out. It’s ok to quit a job or school due to stress, end a toxic relationship, and failure can make one think of alternatives if something isn’t working out.

    I also read some books that Dr. Sandra recommended, and I got into the current version of the BBC show Sherlock because she is a fan. Which I actually liked.

    I have a better life now, thanks to the medical staff at the Veterans Administration hospital and Dr. Sandra.

  • Retirement

    If the salary was the same, what job would you be doing right now and why?

    Retirement. Why work if you don’t have to? You can do what you want. Sleep 14 hours a day even. There’s gonna be more automation in the future, so it’s gonna be harder to find good paying jobs.

    However, if I had to work, I’d choose sex worker. Legalized and decriminalized, of course. And women only. That’s a sweet deal.

  • WordPress Blogging and AI Generation

    WordPress Blogging and AI Generation

    Share a hobby you’ve picked up recently — what got you into it?

    I’ve had hobbies much of my life, and I switch between them. Toys, then reading, then video games, hobby robotics, currently international travel. I have recently gotten into blogging (my HETTY website), and AI generation. I’ll explain why.

    So, I’ve been country hopping since early 2025, and while I have an income, long travel is expensive no matter how frugal one is. I’ve been traveling to countries with lower costs of living, but I have stubborn debt I’d like to pay off as quickly as possible.

    So I have been looking into side gigs, and long story short, decided on a blog. I have education with studying Information Technology, food service and cooking, and English technical writing. I thought the blog based on my education and experience could generate some extra income through donations, but so far nothing. I most likely won’t renew my WordPress by November, but I’m still posting articles and writing for now.

    AI generated content is more complicated, but one of the reasons I’m dabbling in prompting articles, images, and short videos is again money. I’m fully aware of how controversial and troublesome AI apps are. The technology is currently causing problems around the world, and will cause more problems in the future. I fully agree that AI apps need to be heavily regulated, if not banned entirely.

    However, I’ve been exposed to AI content  online for around 2 years. It’s increasingly difficult to avoid AI related content at this point short of staying off of the internet. I gradually used different AI engines over time, with a writing generator, then image and video creation apps.

    I use Gemini to ask questions about different topics when I’m curious about something, or I’ll write prompts on other AI apps to generate images and videos I have to visualize ideas I have. I’ve gotten fairly good at writing prompts over a short period of time.

    So far, I paid for 3 subscriptions to different AI apps. I’m still trying to figure out a way to make extra income with the content I prompted, but I’ll post short videos and images on social media to see if I get a reaction. AI isn’t popular with many people, and currently for good reason.

    Some of the videos and images I had generated are safe for work, others aren’t.

    I’m currently participating in the AI generation bubble, cuz I missed out on the Information Technology bubble in the early 21st century. I’ll continue to experiment with different apps, and maybe some day it can lead to something lucrative or profound.

    I make sure to label any AI generated content that I post online as such. I’m using AI, but try to have standards and integrity in using it.

  • The Dead Artist Club: 11 Iconic Artists

    The Dead Artist Club: 11 Iconic Artists

    “The Dead Artist Club” is a playful or informal term sometimes used to refer to famous artists who have passed away but whose work continues to inspire and influence the art world. Here’s a list of some iconic members of this “club”:

    – **Leonardo da Vinci (1452–1519)** – Renaissance master known for the Mona Lisa and The Last Supper.

    – **Vincent van Gogh (1853–1890)** – Post-Impressionist known for Starry Night and his vibrant use of color.

    – **Frida Kahlo (1907–1954)** – Mexican painter celebrated for her powerful self-portraits and exploration of identity.

    – **Pablo Picasso (1881–1973)** – Cubist pioneer and prolific artist with works like Guernica and Les Demoiselles d’Avignon.

    – **Claude Monet (1840–1926)** – Founder of Impressionism, famous for his water lilies and light-filled landscapes.

    – **Michelangelo Buonarroti (1475–1564)** – Sculptor, painter, and architect best known for the Sistine Chapel ceiling and David.

    – **Edgar Degas (1834–1917)** – Impressionist painter renowned for his depictions of dancers and everyday life.

    – **Rembrandt van Rijn (1606–1669)** – Dutch master celebrated for his portraits and use of chiaroscuro (light and shadow).

    – **Salvador Dalí (1904–1989)** – Surrealist icon famous for dreamlike, bizarre imagery such as The Persistence of Memory.

    – ** Jackson Pollock (1912–1956): Abstract expressionist known for his drip paintings.

    – **Georgia O’Keeffe (1887–1986): American modernist painter known for her large-scale flower paintings and depictions of the Southwest.

    These artists, though no longer with us, have left an indelible mark on the art world and continue to inspire countless creatives today.

  • A Lucky Find

    What’s the weirdest coincidence you’ve ever experienced?

    So over 20 years ago I was really struggling. I was a college student studying for an associates degree (Ha!) and working part-time as a telemarketer doing pledge drives for uniformed services like police and firefighters. It wasn’t a good job- the best thing about it was it offered flexible shifts. As long as an employee worked a day or night shift, and the employee was at a cubicle making phone calls and making pledge quotas, things were good.

    So money was tight. Around the summer time, there was the State Fair that I wanted to go to, but probably couldn’t afford. It probably cost at least 30$ just to enter the fair, see some the sights and be among the crowd, and maybe get a cheap meal. To go on the carnival rides, a person needed at least 50$.

    I wasn’t making my pledge quotas one day, so I was sent home early. I was riding my bike back home, when I saw something familiar on the ground near a strip mall parking lot. I stopped the bike and looked closer. It was money. 50$- two 20$ bills and a 10$. It wasn’t in a wallet, it was money laying on the ground near the curb.

    So of course I picked it up and put it in my pocket. And the next day, I went to the state fair. I had enough for the entry fee, a combo meal, and enough tickets to go on 3 or 4 carnival rides. I spent about 3 hours at the fair, and I was grateful that I was able to go after all. I had a little money left over even.

    Things could have been different. There were different variables, like it could have been a windy day, someone didn’t drop that money, I wouldn’t have been at that location at that time cuz I was still at work. Maybe someone else could have found that money instead. I still think about that, or who did drop that money.

    Anyways, I remember this moment cuz I was grateful to have had a good day, found that money when I needed it, and I wish that I could find larger amounts of money more often.

  • Super Mario World

    Which fictional world would be the most fun to vacation in?

    There were good reasons why I played those Super Mario games so often growing up. They helped me cope with the pressures of school and/or work, the loss of a parent, and the existential pains of puberty.

    I saw the 90s live action movie version of Super Mario brothers, and I still think it’s terrible. I was like, what the hell is this? I saw it once, and never again. Even some of the cast thought the movie was shitty.  No, I would never want to live in such a world.

    However, I saw the CGI version of Super Mario, and that was a much better movie. The creators got the tone and visuals right, and it was a fun movie. The Nostalgia was there.

    I’ll get around to seeing the sequel eventually (streaming most likely), but yes it’s a fun, colorful, and quirky world, with a more cartoonish and simple version of good vs evil.

    Plus, there’s magic mushrooms with special powers, Tanooki suits that are capable of flight, and dinosaurs still exist.

    “Hedonism World” doesn’t exist in fiction, as far as I know, so I’ll take the fun, thrills, and joy of Super Mario World as a vacation location.

  • I’m with Stupid⬅️↖️⬆️↗️➡️↙️⬇️↘️

    If you had to get a tattoo right now, what would it be and why?

    I have never gotten a tattoo, and I see no reason why to get one now. Plus, I can’t afford a good tattoo now.

    Oh, I would talk about getting one over the years, and there has been phases where I wanted different types of tattoos.

    I wanted a tattoo of the Tao symbol, cuz it sort of fits my life philosophy (not quite, but close). Then a tattoo of Icarus with his wings falling down to Earth. I’m a fan of Led Zeppelin, and I thought the band logo would look cool.

    Now though? The phrase “I’m with Stupid.” surrounded by arrows pointing in all directions. I really don’t care much about tattoos at all, but hey it’s a sort of funny tattoo, and it shows my current contempt and apathy with many people.

    I don’t care where the tattoo would be. Maybe my right arm just in case the tattoo gets infected somehow and the arm needs amputation.

    Hey, you asked.

  • No country does Halloween better than the US.

    No country does Halloween better than the US.

    What’s a cultural tradition from your country that you love?

    Halloween is my favorite holiday. I even prefer Halloween over Christmas. Why is that? It can be fun, and there’s at times there’s true creativity by the celebrants, young and old. I’ve seen some truly impressive costumes and home decorations over the years, and many crap costumes. I like to dress up myself at times, even in my 50s. I tend to wear costumes with masks.

    Right around Halloween time, horror movies of various quality are released, there’s at times Halloween themed TV show episodes. Who doesn’t love the Simpsons Treehouse of Horror episodes?

    There’s the treats, of course. I tend to munch on chocolate snacks more often around Halloween season.

    This past year, I “celebrated” Halloween by going out to bars and clubs in Porto Portugal, and I was disappointed. Most of the costumes were lame and low quality. I was seeing several Christian monk costumes, hardly any scary or “fun” costumes. Definitely nothing impressive.

    Millions if not billions of dollars are spent annually in the US on Halloween decorations, costumes, media content, snacks, and while there’s plenty of scary costumes, some costumes display a good sense of humor.

    I’m probably too old for Halloween celebrations now, but I’m probably one of those people who could carry the blue Halloween trick or treat bucket with me. To me, Halloween is one of the few annual events that’s fun and I’m more sociable. I have yet to go to a Comic-Con event, but I’m definitely the type of person those events are made for.

  • The Wild Robot

    The Wild Robot

    What’s the last movie that made you cry?

    I didn’t actually cry (more burnt out than tough or macho), but yes I did feel the tears coming on. I saw the movie on an international flight to Europe. It’s a classic bittersweet movie, and I look forward to watching whatever sequels and possibly getting around to reading the books. I highly recommend the wonderful movie for those who haven’t seen it yet.

  • The Great War

    If you could erase one event from history, what would it be?

    I’m a student of history, not a professional or expert. But to me, the Great War (aka World War 1) should be erased from history/not have happened.

    From what I understand of the war, it was mostly European conflict, over 17 million people died, mainly from poison gas, disease, and other terrible weapons, and in a complex chaotic way further down in time led to World War 2, The Russian Revolutions, and even more deaths, destruction, and terrible weapons (“Der Führer” and Winston Churchill were both Great War veterans, as an example).

    With more time and research I could prove my case better. But I think the repercussions from that war can still be felt over 100 years later.

  • How To Start a Fire

    How To Start a Fire

    Making a fire without matches or a lighter is a valuable skill, especially in survival situations. Here are some effective methods to start a fire using natural materials and simple tools:

    1. **Friction-Based Methods**
    – *Bow Drill:* Create a bow with a flexible stick and string, use a spindle (a straight, dry stick) and a fireboard (a flat piece of wood with a notch). Rub the spindle rapidly against the fireboard using the bow to generate heat and create an ember. Transfer the ember to tinder and blow gently to ignite a flame.
    – *Hand Drill:* Similar to the bow drill but using just your hands to spin the spindle against the fireboard. Requires dry, soft woods and patience.

    2. **Spark-Based Methods**
    – *Flint and Steel:* Strike a piece of steel against flint rock to produce sparks. Direct the sparks onto char cloth or dry tinder to start a fire.
    – *Firesteel (Ferrocerium rod):* Scrape the rod with a metal striker to produce hot sparks that ignite tinder.

    3. **Lens-Based Methods**
    – *Magnifying Glass or Lens:* Use sunlight focused through a magnifying glass, eyeglasses, or even a clear plastic bag filled with water to concentrate sunlight onto tinder until it ignites.

    4. **Battery and Steel Wool:**
    – Touch fine steel wool to both terminals of a battery. The steel wool will heat up and ignite. Transfer the flame carefully to tinder.

    **Tips for Success:**
    – Use dry, fine tinder like dry grass, leaves, bark fibers, or cotton.
    – Prepare kindling and fuel wood in advance to keep the fire going once it starts.
    – Practice fire safety and ensure your fire is completely extinguished before leaving the area.

    With patience and the right materials, you can start a fire without matches or a lighter!

  • 16 Great Quotes about Artificial Intelligence

    16 Great Quotes about Artificial Intelligence

    Here are some famous quotes about Artificial Intelligence from notable figures  that capture its promise, challenges, and impact:

    1. “The development of full artificial intelligence could spell the end of the human race.” — Stephen Hawking

    2. “Artificial intelligence is the new electricity.” — Andrew Ng

    3. “The question is not whether intelligent machines can have any emotions, but whether machines can be intelligent without any emotions.” — Marvin Minsky

    4. “Some people call this artificial intelligence, but the reality is this technology will enhance us. So instead of artificial intelligence, I think we’ll augment our intelligence.” — Ginni Rometty

    5. “AI is about replacing human decision making with more sophisticated technologies.” — Dave Waters

    6. “The key to artificial intelligence has always been the representation.” — Jeff Hawkins

    7. “Success in creating effective AI could be the biggest event in the history of our civilization. Unfortunately, it might also be the last.” — Stephen Hawking

    8. “The question of whether a computer can think is no more interesting than the question of whether a submarine can swim.” — Edsger W. Dijkstra

    9. “Artificial intelligence is the future, not only for Russia, but for all humankind. It comes with colossal opportunities, but also threats that are difficult to predict.” — Vladimir Putin

    10. “The real question is, when will we draft an artificial intelligence bill of rights? What will that consist of? And who will get to decide that?” — Gray Scott

    11. “Our intelligence is what makes us human, and AI is an extension of that quality.” — Yann LeCun

    12. “The pace of progress in artificial intelligence is incredibly fast.” — Elon Musk

    13. “By far, the greatest danger of Artificial Intelligence is that people conclude too early that they understand it.” — Eliezer Yudkowsky

    14. “Machines take me by surprise with great frequency.” — Alan Turing

    15. “AI is likely to be either the best or worst thing to happen to humanity.” — Elon Musk

    These quotes offer perspectives from leading thinkers on the transformative power and ethical considerations of AI.

  • Politicians are anti science and education

    What’s a conspiracy theory you actually find believable?

    I’m American, of course.  I believe that most if not all politicians are anti science and anti-education, cuz an ignorant population is easier to control, manipulate, and exploit. Like there has been great strides in science and engineering in recent decades, but the average citizen wouldn’t be able to know how it’s possible. An example is the smartphone. I have one on my hand right now, but I only have a general idea how they work. If I took one apart, I wouldn’t know how all of the different components and programs work together to make a functional machine.

    Oh, there’s educational institutions like colleges and trade schools. They aren’t free or even affordable, and the skills and lessons taught at public schools tend to be more limited. There has been numerous cuts to public education for decades, to the point where many students and educators are demoralized and ignorant about various things. Many students couldn’t be able to identify various countries on a map, and have limited mathematical ability.

    Libraries can be free resources for knowledge, and there’s hundreds of libraries of various quality in the US and globally. In the US though, there’s a list of banned books cuz they have content that is considered disputable by certain political groups (too “woke” or “obscene.”)

    So certain outdated concepts and misinformation are promoted in the media by politicians and influencers instead of innovative ideas and philosophy. There’s various distractions and noise. Some important voices are drowned out in favor of louder more charismatic voices.

    So the average adult citizen reads at a 6th grade level, and more celebrities and athletes are more famous and well to do than most scientists, engineers, philosophers and writers. Most Americans would know who Taylor Swift Lebron James is than HL Mencken or Marie Curie, as an example.

    There’s also one International Space Station instead of several space stations in orbit. Still no moon bases from any country.  Many scientists and researchers have to apply for grants yearly to get funding.

    Maybe I’m not explaining myself well, but I think there is already several solutions possible to numerous world problems, better ways of doing things, and yet there doesn’t seem to be a public will or funding to solve them, cuz of politicians leading in bad faith. So social problems remain unchanged and in some cases are worsening.

  • Shy and introverted celebrities

    Shy and introverted celebrities

    Here’s a list of celebrities known for their shy or introverted nature, focusing primarily on current public figures:

    – **Billie Eilish** – The singer-songwriter has spoken openly about her introverted personality and preference for privacy.

    – **Ariana Grande** – Often described as introverted and selective about social interactions.

    – **Daniel Radcliffe** – The “Harry Potter” star has shared how he’s naturally introverted and values quiet time.

    – ** Kristen Stewart** – Known for her reserved and introspective demeanor in public.

    – **Keanu Reeves** – Famously low-key and private, often described as shy and humble.

    – **Lady Gaga** – Despite her bold stage persona, she has spoken about her introverted side.

    – **Ryan Gosling** – Recognized for being more reserved and private compared to many of his peers.

    – **Emma Stone** – Has spoken openly about her shyness and social anxiety.

    – **Adele** – Known for being reserved and private outside of her music career.

    – **Maggie Rogers** – The singer-songwriter identifies as an introvert and has discussed how it influences her music.

    – **Johnny Depp** – Though very famous, he is often described as shy and introspective offstage.

    – **Jennifer Lawrence** – Has talked about being shy and awkward in social situations.

    – **Robert Pattinson** – Prefers to keep his personal life private and is known for being introspective.

    – **Taylor Swift** – Identifies as introverted and has spoken about needing time alone to recharge.

    -** Lorde**: Identifies as introverted and prefers solitude.

    **Notable Figures from the Past:**

    – **Audrey Hepburn** – Known for her grace and quiet personality off-camera.

    – **Albert Einstein** – Often described as introverted and thoughtful.

    – **J.D. Salinger** – Famous for his reclusive lifestyle.

    – **Billie Holiday** – The legendary jazz singer was known to be introverted and struggled with stage fright.

    – **Emily Dickinson** – The poet lived a very private and introverted life.

    – **Bill Withers**- Known for his quiet and private lifestyle.

    – **Harper Lee**- The author of “To Kill a Mockingbird” was famously private and introverted.

    These celebrities demonstrate that shyness and introversion can coexist with public success and creativity.

  • Ooo, Me, Me!

    What’s a thing you were completely obsessed with as a kid?

    Hey, I’ll answer. Since it turns out that I have an autistic spectrum disorder, yes I developed obsessions, especially as a kid.

    I grew up in 1980s, with it’s several classic science fiction movies that are now a part of pop culture, I developed an obsession with robots and future tech. It got to the point where I wanted to work in the robotics field, most likely as a technician.

    The bad news is that I never worked in that field, although I do have an IT related degree. The good news is I have a robotics hobby, and I sometimes come up with interesting designs.

    I became obsessed with Leonardo Da Vinci as a kid. I know quite a bit about his life, art, and his dabbling in architecture and engineering. That’s something I mostly kept to myself over the years, but I was able to visit the Leonardo Da Vinci Science and Technology Museum in Milan recently.

    I liked some of the 80s music, and even some of the current music I listen to has that 80s influence, or samples music from the 1980s. Michael Jackson, Prince, The Gap Band, Alexander O’Neal, and so on.

    I had a healthy obsession (maybe unhealthy, since it affected my grades) with video games in the 1980s, I had video game consoles over the years, and I would argue that playing video games helped me survive a rough childhood. I since cooled down from playing video games, at least until a Holodeck technology becomes real.

    I had numerous Transformers toys (again robots), and I was obsessed with the supernatural and paranormal. Yes, I read about aliens and UFOs, ghosts, the cryptids like the Loch Ness Monster and Bigfoot. I later became a skeptic and atheist. Funny how that turned out.

    On the bad side, I had an obsession with infectious diseases like Rabies and then HIV. I had a phase where I was washing my hands several times a day because of anxiety of getting sick. I outgrown that phase though.

    I’m happy to say that I don’t have either disease, as far as I know. I suppose I got more educated about viruses because I was afraid of getting sick with such diseases. I never got COVID, and in fact helped in a small way in the creation of the mRNA vaccines.

    So obsessions can be a good thing, if channeled properly.

  • Free from pain and fear, money no obstacle

    If you had to describe your ideal life, what would it look like?

    I think the title is self explantory, but I will elaborate. I wish that I could have an easier life than I do now. I still worry about making ends meet month to month, although I’m more comfortable than I have been before. And I live with a fair amount of anxiety and fear, especially about my health and the future. My ideal life would be to be able to do whatever I wanted (within reason), and I wouldn’t be afraid of the consequences. Like loss, harm, or failure.

    Like before I started my HETTY blog, I had an idea for a certain style of cookbook. It was gonna be postmodern, but I’m afraid of saying more than that vague description. But I have no connections in the publishing industry, there’s already a lot of cookbooks published, and maybe the specific style I wanted to write the cookbook in wouldn’t land with the public, and it would later end up in the bargain bin. So after some thought, early efforts, and worry, I didn’t write anything substantial.

    If I was more secure financially and socially, I would have probably written the cookbook, without the fear of failure. I would be willing to take more risks.

    There’s also been times where I have been too timid to ask certain women out on dates throughout my life. Again, the fear of failure and possibly of harm. Also times where I was afraid of speaking up when it could be required. Cuz I’m sometimes afraid of saying the wrong thing at inappropriate moments. So I clam up more often than not.

    So that ideal life remains a fantasy so far. I still have ideas and aspirations, so maybe I can luck out someday and get to a place where I can take more reasonable risks. But I would like to be free from pain, fear, and be more financially comfortable.

  • The World’s Funniest Jokes: Clean and Dirty Humor That Actually Hits Home

    The World’s Funniest Jokes: Clean and Dirty Humor That Actually Hits Home

    Laughter is truly the best medicine, and everyone loves a good joke that can brighten up even the dullest of days. Whether you prefer lighthearted, clean humor that’s perfect for sharing with family and friends, or you enjoy a bit of cheeky, dirty humor that pushes the boundaries just enough to surprise and delight, this collection has something for everyone.

    In this post, we’ll dive into the world of the funniest jokes that actually hit home- jokes that are relatable, clever, and guaranteed to get you chuckling out loud. So get ready to laugh, share, and maybe even blush a little, as we explore the perfect blend of clean and dirty humor that keeps the fun alive no matter your taste!

    1. Introduction: The Power of Humor

    Laughter is a universal language that transcends cultures, ages, and backgrounds. It has the incredible power to connect people, lighten heavy moments, and bring joy into our daily lives. Whether it’s a clever pun, a witty one-liner, or a cheeky joke, humor has a unique way of breaking the ice and making us feel more at ease. In this blog, we’ll explore some of the world’s funniest jokes- ranging from clean, family-friendly laughs to a bit more risqué, dirty humor that still manages to keep things clever and relatable.

    No matter your taste, get ready to chuckle, snort, and maybe even groan, because good humor is all about finding that perfect punchline that truly hits home.

    2. What Makes a Joke Truly Funny?

    What makes a joke truly funny is a combination of timing, relatability, and surprise. At its core, humor often hinges on the unexpected- a punchline that twists the story in a way the listener didn’t anticipate. Whether it’s a clever wordplay, an absurd scenario, or a witty observation about everyday life, the element of surprise keeps us engaged and amused.

    Relatability also plays a crucial role. Jokes that tap into shared experiences or common feelings resonate more deeply because they create a connection between the teller and the audience. When people recognize a slice of their own lives in a joke, the laughter feels more genuine and satisfying.

    Timing, both in delivery and context, can elevate a simple joke into a memorable moment. A well-timed pause before the punchline or the right setting can make all the difference. Additionally, the tone and confidence of the person telling the joke contribute to how it’s received.

    Finally, what’s considered funny can vary widely depending on personal taste and cultural background. Clean humor often wins hearts with its cleverness and inclusivity, while dirty humor can push boundaries and elicit laughter through shock and taboo.

    Ultimately, a truly funny joke is one that connects, surprises, and leaves people smiling- no matter the style.

    3. The Art of Clean Humor: Jokes Everyone Can Enjoy

    Clean humor is a timeless craft that brings people together through laughter without crossing any lines. The art of clean jokes lies in their cleverness, relatability, and universal appeal- making them perfect for all ages and settings.

    Whether it’s a witty one-liner, a playful pun, or an amusing observation about everyday life, clean humor relies on creativity rather than shock value. This kind of comedy creates an inclusive atmosphere where everyone can share a genuine laugh without worry or discomfort.

    From classic dad jokes to charming anecdotes, clean humor proves that you don’t need profanity or risqué topics to deliver a punchline that truly hits home. Embracing this style not only broadens your comedic reach but also highlights the power of laughter to connect us all.

    4. Top 5 Clean Jokes That Always Get a Laugh

    When it comes to humor that’s suitable for all audiences, clean jokes are a timeless favorite. They bring smiles without crossing any lines, making them perfect for family gatherings, workplace banter, or just lightening the mood with friends.

    Here are the top 5 clean jokes that never fail to get a laugh:

    1. **Why don’t scientists trust atoms?

    **Because they make up everything!

    2. **What do you call fake spaghetti?

    **An impasta.

    3. **Why did the scarecrow win an award?

    **Because he was outstanding in his field!

    4. **How does a penguin build its house?

    **Igloos it together.

    5. **Why did the math book look sad?

    **Because it had too many problems.

    These jokes are simple, clever, and guaranteed to brighten anyone’s day. Whether you’re breaking the ice or just looking for a quick chuckle, these gems always hit home with their universal appeal and witty punchlines.

    Keep them handy- you never know when a little clean humor will save the day!

    5. Exploring Dirty Humor: When Is It Appropriate?

    Dirty humor can be a tricky territory to navigate- it often toes the line between hilarious and offensive, depending on the audience and setting. While it definitely has its place in comedy, knowing when and where to use it is key to ensuring it lands well and doesn’t alienate anyone.

    Generally, dirty jokes work best in relaxed, informal environments where everyone is comfortable with adult themes- think close friends, certain comedy clubs, or private gatherings where the mood is light and open-minded.

    It’s important to read the room and consider your audience’s sensibilities before diving into risqué material. In professional or mixed company, dirty humor can easily backfire, causing discomfort or misunderstandings. However, when shared appropriately, it can break the ice, spark laughter, and even foster a sense of camaraderie.

    6. Top 5 Dirty Jokes That Actually Hit Home

    Ultimately, the best rule of thumb is to be respectful, gauge the vibe, and remember that the goal of humor is to bring people together-not push them apart.

    When it comes to humor that pushes the envelope, dirty jokes have a special way of catching us off guard and making us laugh-sometimes uncomfortably, but always memorably. These top 5 dirty jokes aren’t just your typical risqué one-liners; they’re clever, relatable, and hit home because they touch on everyday situations with a cheeky twist.

    Whether you’re sharing a laugh with close friends or breaking the ice at a casual get-together, these jokes balance naughty humor with wit, ensuring the punchline lands just right.

    Ready to add a little spice to your joke repertoire? Here are the best dirty jokes that actually hit home and keep the laughter rolling.

    1. **What do you call a woman with one leg?

    **Eileen

    2. **What’s black and white, and red all over, and goes 1000 kilometers an hour?

    **A skunk in a blender.

    3. **How did the leper Poker game end?

    Everyone threw their hands in.

    4. **What does it taste like to go down on an 80 year old?

    **Depends

    5. **What’s long, green and smells like Pork?

    **Kermit’s finger

    7. The Psychology Behind Why We Laugh

    Laughter is a universal language that transcends cultures and ages, but have you ever wondered why we laugh in the first place?

    The psychology behind laughter reveals fascinating insights into human behavior and social connection. At its core, laughter is a response to humor, surprise, or relief, often triggered when something violates our expectations- but in a way that feels safe and non-threatening.

    This cognitive shift helps us process incongruities and find joy in the unexpected. From an evolutionary perspective, laughter likely developed as a social bonding mechanism. When we laugh together, it creates a sense of unity and shared understanding, strengthening relationships and easing tensions.

    Psychologists have also found that laughter activates the brain’s reward centers, releasing feel-good chemicals like endorphins and dopamine, which elevate our mood and reduce stress.Whether it’s a clever pun, a silly pun, or a cheeky dirty joke, the act of laughing connects us to others and ourselves.

    Understanding the psychology behind why we laugh not only enhances our appreciation of humor but also highlights its vital role in mental health and social well-being. So next time a joke hits home, remember: laughter isn’t just fun- it’s good for you.

    8. How Humor Builds Connections and Relieves Stress

    Humor is a universal language that transcends cultural barriers and brings people together in moments of shared laughter. When you tell a joke or share a funny story, you create an instant bond with your audience- whether it’s friends, family, or even strangers.

    This connection arises because humor taps into our basic human need for social interaction and belonging. Laughing together fosters a sense of camaraderie, breaking down walls and making conversations more open and genuine.

    Beyond its social benefits, humor also plays a powerful role in relieving stress. When we laugh, our bodies release endorphins-natural feel-good chemicals that boost mood and reduce pain. This physiological response helps lower stress hormones like cortisol, promoting relaxation and mental clarity. In fact, incorporating humor into daily life can improve resilience, making it easier to navigate challenges and setbacks.

    Whether it’s a perfectly timed clean joke or a cheeky, dirty quip, humor has the unique ability to lighten the mood, ease tension, and bring a refreshing perspective to even the toughest situations.

    So, the next time you share a funny moment, remember: you’re not just entertaining- you’re building connections and nurturing your well-being in the most enjoyable way possible.

    9. Navigating Humor in Different Social Settings

    Humor is a powerful tool that can bring people together, lighten the mood, and create memorable moments. However, navigating humor in different social settings requires a keen sense of awareness and sensitivity. What’s hilarious among close friends might not land the same way in a professional environment, and jokes that are perfectly acceptable at a casual party could be out of place- or even offensive-at a family gathering.

    When sharing jokes, it’s important to consider your audience’s values, cultural backgrounds, and comfort levels. Clean humor, with its clever wordplay and universal themes, tends to be the safest bet in mixed company, ensuring everyone can enjoy the laughs without feeling uncomfortable. On the other hand, dirty humor often thrives in more intimate or relaxed settings where everyone shares a similar understanding and tolerance for edgier content.

    Mastering the art of reading the room is key. Pay attention to cues like body language and reactions, and be ready to switch gears if a particular joke doesn’t resonate.

    Remember, the goal of humor is to connect and entertain- not to alienate or offend. By thoughtfully tailoring your jokes to fit the social context, you’ll keep the laughter flowing and ensure that your humor truly hits home.

    10. Combining Clean and Dirty Humor Tastefully

    Balancing clean and dirty humor in a way that resonates with your audience can be a real art form. The key lies in understanding your crowd and knowing when to keep things light-hearted and when to push the envelope just enough to get a genuine laugh- without crossing the line. Clean jokes are great for setting a friendly, inclusive tone that everyone can enjoy, while a well-timed dirty joke can add a surprising twist that keeps the energy lively and unpredictable.

    When combining both styles, it’s important to maintain a smooth flow between the two. Start with a clever, clean setup to warm up your audience, then segue into a cheekier punchline that delivers a humorous shock factor. This contrast not only heightens the comedic impact but also ensures that your humor appeals to a broader range of tastes.

    Remember, the goal isn’t to offend but to entertain- so always consider context and be mindful of the setting and the sensitivities of your listeners.Ultimately, tastefully blending clean and dirty humor allows you to keep your jokes fresh and engaging, striking that perfect balance between clever wit and playful naughtiness that truly hits home.

    11. Tips for Telling Jokes That Land Well

    Telling a joke that truly lands is an art form that combines timing, delivery, and understanding your audience. Whether you’re sharing a clean joke at a family gathering or a cheekier one among close friends, keeping these tips in mind can make all the difference.

    First, know your audience. Tailor your humor to the people you’re with- what might be hilarious to one group could fall flat or even offend another. Pay attention to the setting and the mood; a light-hearted atmosphere is perfect for playful jokes, while more formal occasions call for subtlety.

    Next, master your timing. A well-timed pause before the punchline builds anticipation and makes the payoff much sweeter. Avoid rushing through the joke, and don’t over-explain it; let your listeners connect the dots themselves.

    Use expressive body language and vocal variety to bring the joke to life. Facial expressions, gestures, and changes in tone can emphasize key parts and keep your audience engaged.

    Finally, be confident but flexible. Not every joke will hit perfectly, and that’s okay. If a joke doesn’t get the reaction you hoped for, laugh it off and move on smoothly.

    Humor is about connection and fun, so keep it light and enjoyable for everyone involved.By combining these tips, you’ll be well on your way to delivering jokes that actually hit home and keep your audience laughing long after the punchline.

    12. Cultural Differences in Humor

    Humor is a universal language, but the way it’s expressed and received can vary dramatically across different cultures. What might provoke hearty laughter in one country could fall flat or even offend in another. Understanding these cultural differences is key to appreciating the rich diversity of humor around the world.

    For example, British humor often leans heavily on irony, understatement, and dry wit, whereas American humor tends to be more direct and exuberant. In Japan, subtlety and wordplay are prized, with puns playing a central role, while many Middle Eastern cultures enjoy storytelling and exaggeration as part of their comedic tradition.

    Even clean versus dirty humor can be perceived differently depending on cultural norms and social taboos. What’s considered playful banter in one culture might be seen as inappropriate or shocking in another. This makes cross-cultural comedy a fascinating but challenging art form.

    Embracing these differences not only broadens our comedic horizons but also fosters empathy and connection across borders. So whether you prefer a clever pun, a slapstick gag, or a cheeky joke, remember that humor is as varied as the people who share it- and that’s part of what makes it so wonderfully fun.

    13. When Humor Crosses the Line: What to Avoid

    While humor has the incredible power to bring people together and lighten the mood, it’s important to recognize that not all jokes land the same way for everyone. When humor crosses certain boundaries, it can quickly shift from funny to offensive, alienating your audience rather than entertaining them. Sensitive topics such as race, religion, gender identity, disability, and personal trauma should be approached with caution- or better yet, avoided altogether.

    Dirty jokes, while often hilarious in the right context, can easily become inappropriate if they target someone’s personal attributes or experiences in a hurtful way.The key to keeping humor enjoyable and inclusive is understanding your audience and respecting their values. Jokes that punch down, reinforce harmful stereotypes, or belittle marginalized groups tend to do more harm than good. Instead, aim for humor that’s clever, relatable, and lighthearted without being at anyone’s expense. Remember, the best comedy makes people laugh *with* each other, not *at* each other. By steering clear of harmful territory, your jokes will not only hit home- they’ll also bring joy without crossing the line.

    14. How to Develop Your Own Sense of Humor

    Developing your own sense of humor is a journey that’s both personal and rewarding. Humor is deeply tied to our experiences, perspectives, and personality, so the key is to explore what genuinely makes you laugh and resonates with your unique outlook on life. Start by exposing yourself to a wide variety of comedic styles- whether it’s witty wordplay, observational humor, slapstick, or even a bit of cheeky, edgy content. Pay attention to the jokes, stories, or comedians that consistently catch your attention and evoke a genuine smile or laugh.

    Don’t be afraid to experiment with different types of humor in your daily conversations or social media posts. Notice how people respond, but more importantly, gauge how comfortable and authentic you feel when sharing jokes or funny anecdotes. Remember, a great sense of humor isn’t about forcing laughs; it’s about embracing the moments that naturally bring joy and connection. Over time, you’ll develop a style that feels true to you- balancing clean and perhaps even a little dirty humor- making your jokes not only funny but also a reflection of who you are.

    15. Conclusion: Laughing Through Life- Ups and Downs

    Laughter has an incredible way of bringing people together, lightening heavy moments, and turning ordinary days into memorable ones. Whether it’s a clever clean joke that sparks a smile or a cheeky dirty joke that catches you off guard, humor connects us through shared experience and joy. Life is full of ups and downs, challenges and triumphs, and sometimes all we really need is a good laugh to remind us not to take things too seriously. Embracing humor- both the innocent and the risque- allows us to navigate life’s twists with a lighter heart and a brighter outlook. So, keep these jokes close, share them freely, and remember: no matter what life throws your way, a little laughter can make all the difference.

    Whether you’re in the mood for some lighthearted, clean humor or a cheeky, slightly risqué joke to share with close friends, this collection of the world’s funniest jokes has something to brighten everyone’s day. Laughter truly is the best medicine, and finding humor that resonates- whether playful or bold- helps us connect and unwind. We hope these jokes brought a smile to your face and inspired you to spread the joy wherever you go. After all, a good laugh shared is a memory made! ~H

  • I have various hobbies and interests

    How do you unwind after a demanding day?

    I’m pretty much retired now due to various health issues, so I have much more free time than the average person. So yes, I have various hobbies and interests.

    Many ways I unwind can be found online. I’m one of those chronically online people, but I watch videos (yes, even those ones), read the news and various articles, listen to music, sound washes and colored noise therapy. Brown, green, and white noises work the best for me, plus variations.

    I watch movies, comedy bits and shows, play video games. I cook or prepare my preferred comfort foods, which tend to be the fattening foods. Tacos, Pizza, Burgers, various stir fries, and so on.

    I have time for other hobbies. I go fishing at times, although I’m not very good at it. I fly drones, which I am pretty good at. I play musical instruments, which I’m not good at. I have that robot hobby, and sometimes I dabble in amateur engineering and small electronics.

    I don’t have many friends, but sometimes I text them or family.

    If it’s a really long or bad day, I’ll try to nap or sleep. I have sleep conditions though, including insomnia.

    I’m dabbling in AI generated images, writing and videos. I’m warming up to it, but mainly because it’s not going away anytime soon, and I want to prepare for a future where AI is more prevalent. It just may even lead to a job or increased income in the future.

    There, I think that about covers it.

  • I’m already writing for free!

    What job would you do for free?

    It’s true. I’m trying to monetize my WordPress blog, which I started in October 2025. I planned on relying on donations for my writing, which mostly focuses on poverty relief. How much have I made so far for the articles I posted? Zero!

    I’ll admit that I used AI generated content for some of the articles I posted. I just wrote the prompts, edited the generated content as needed, and copy and pasted the articles to my blog space. But some articles I wrote myself.

    I’m in fact losing some money from paying for Blaze advertising at times, paying for the WordPress domain, and then paid for the AI writing app. I also at times spend money to make certain recipes or go to events, and then write about them later.

    I also admit that I have the financial means to support myself now so I can write about different subjects. But my experience so far with blog writing has been discouraging, if I focus more on earning a living from writing.

    I recently read a social media post about someone else who tried and failed to make money online. It can be very hard, almost impossible if someone can’t invest massively in advertising or a lucrative service and/or product.

    Anyways, as far as jobs I would do for free that exist in real life, that are worth the stress and investment of time and effort? Not many. Maybe a club DJ, an astronaut, or a male porn star. The fringe benefits have to be worth it. Which of those 3 are more likely to happen in my lifetime though?

  • I Learned Better Outside of School.

    I Learned Better Outside of School.

    Who was your most influential teacher? Why?

    I struggle to recall the names of any of my prior teachers, and I had many of course. I went to public school, and I can only remember Ms. Lloyd-Jones, my kindergarten teacher. I think I only remember her name because it was hyphenated.

    I admit that I was barely above average as a student, but I learned better outside of school. And I have an unconventional education. Years of public school, a military apprenticeship mostly learning cooking, an associate’s degree in Computer Information Systems (not financially lucrative yet), and I dropped out of getting a bachelor’s degree in Technical Writing, but I only had a year left in getting one.

    I remember Jean-Claude, the French Chef who had a gentle way of teaching military cooks to improve on cooking methods. He was a mentor and supervisor, but I didn’t know him well. He had advice that I still remember.

    But I would say Leonardo (Da Vinci) was my best overall teacher, even though he lived centuries ago. He was more than an artist, from what I read of him. He worked in different fields, and for some reason I find him fascinating. Mainly for his designs of flying machines, anatomy drawing, and mechanical devices. I saw how gears, ropes, frames, and pulleys worked together for a certain purpose.

    I think I’m a dreamer like he was, and it’s only in recent years I’ve been dabbling in different fields like video generation, robotics, AI generated projects, music, experimenting with food recipes, painting, and writing. My blog counts.

    The most influential Leonardo quote I remember? “It’s not enough to know. We must also do.”

    I was able to visit the Leonardo Da Vinci Science and Technology Museum in Milan earlier this month, and I mostly went to take photos and absorb info so I can be inspired to make my own inventions and designs. Yes, I have some ideas I want to work on. Let’s see if I can succeed.

  • There’s 2 Versions of Compliments

    What was the best compliment you’ve received?

    There’s 2 versions of compliments I’ve gotten. One is a “clean” version, and then there is a more inappropriate compliment. But both were from women I knew.

    The “clean” version of a compliment I’ve received, that I actually took to heart, is a female coworker called me creative. I was in the Air Force then working at a fitness center, and I have more of an Arty/Nerdy vibe. I believe the young woman was of a junior rank and is Hispanic. She was hanging out at the fitness center cuz her boyfriend at the time worked there, and we were chatting about different things, and she called me more of a creative type without me mentioning that I’m like that. I talk about music, movies, video games, TV shows, pop culture in general often, and I’m a fan of comedy. So I appreciated the compliment.

    I’ve been called a good person before, but I never think I’m good enough. And I am flawed and a constant work in progress (I can’t always help others, as an example.)

    The more inappropriate version of a compliment I’ve gotten was from an ex girlfriend, near fiance. You can probably see where this is going, so maybe some of you more sensitive readers should stop reading by now.

    ———-NSFW and/or NSFL——-

    For those who really want to know, and have their curiosity sated, she said that she had the best sex she ever had with me. And sometimes she would call me handsome and good looking , even though I don’t think I am. And although we broke up, I still think about her, and wish that things went differently than they did.

    I’m thinking about her again. Maybe in time I’ll write about my ex more in detail, cuz it was the most complicated relationship I ever had by far.

  • I’ll take the more affordable option

    I’ll take the more affordable option

    You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike?

    I have experience with all forms of the listed transportation, but it depends on the country I’m in.

    The US unfortunately doesn’t have a good train network compared to Europe, but if it’s more affordable and accessible to take the train, I’ll do it. I will take flights to different cities if there are no train routes there.

    Buses I will take only for shorter distances, say no more than 100 miles one way. I once took a longer round trip from Little Rock to Chicago by bus, and I found the experience unpleasant. Every single bus there and back was late, sometimes by over an hour. The rest stops were too brief, and sometimes the buses would be stuck in traffic congestion. I got too stressed, so no more of that.

    A round trip by Amtrak from Little Rock to Milwaukee was more of a pleasant experience. I’d recommend trips by train whenever possible, even though it can take almost a day to travel one way.

    If I’m not rushed to go to a specific city or destination, I’ll take the scenic route by train. A flight otherwise, and then a bus is my last option. Bikes and cars only for shorter trips of no more than 5 miles, if I can help it.

  • The Nerd List

    What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times?

    Oh, I got a list alright. Prepare yourself for the Nerd List:

    The Simpsons

    Scooby Doo

    Alien

    Aliens

    Star Wars (all of non Disney movies except for Rogue One)

    Predator

    The Lord of the Rings

    The Indiana Jones original trilogy

    Anchorman

    Beetlejuice

    Terminator 1 and 2

    The Matrix

    Airplane!

    The Thing

    Halloween

    Dawn of the Dead

    Pee Wee’s Big Adventure

    Seinfeld

    Family Guy

    Goodfellas

    Forrest Gump

    The Exorcist

    Fright Night

    The 40 Year Old Virgin

    Fargo

    The Big Lebowski

    Silence of the Lambs

    The Cosby Show

    American Werewolf in London

    Edward Scissorhands

    There’s probably more movies and shows I forgot to list, but these are the main ones. Note that there isn’t many indie movies or art films among the list. Some foreign films I only saw once.

  • HL Mencken: 14 Great Quotes

    HL Mencken: 14 Great Quotes

    Henry Louis Mencken (1880-1956) was one of the greatest journalists, essayists, and cultural cititics of the 20th Century. Here are some of the best quotes by H.L. Mencken, along with their sources:

    1. **”For every complex problem there is an answer that is clear, simple, and wrong.”***Source:* Often attributed to Mencken; appears in various writings but exact origin is uncertain.

    2. **”The most dangerous man to any government is the man who is able to think things out for himself.”***Source:* *The American Mercury*, 1926.

    3. **”Democracy is the theory that the common people know what they want, and deserve to get it good and hard.”***Source:* *Notes on Democracy*, 1926.

    4. **”Puritanism: The haunting fear that someone, somewhere, may be happy.”***Source:* Attributed in various works; exact source uncertain but reflects Mencken’s critiques of morality.

    5. **”No one ever went broke underestimating the intelligence of the American public.”***Source:* *The American Mercury*, 1920s.

    6. **”Nobody ever lost a dollar by underestimating the taste of the American public.”***Source:* Similar in theme to above; from Mencken’s critiques of popular culture.

    7. **”The whole aim of practical politics is to keep the populace alarmed (and hence clamorous to be led to safety) by menacing it with an endless series of hobgoblins, all of them imaginary.”***Source:* *In Defense of Women*, 1918.

    8. **”On some great and glorious day the plain folks of the land will reach their heart’s desire at last, and the White House will be adorned by a downright moron.”***Source:* *The American Mercury*, 1920.

    9. **”The urge to save humanity is almost always a false front for the urge to rule it.”***Source:* From Mencken’s commentary on social movements, particularly in *The American Mercury*.

    10. **”In every man under thirty there is a lawless anarchist, and in every man over thirty there is a conformist coward.”***Source:* From Mencken’s *A Mencken Chrestomathy* (1949).

    11. “An idealist is a person who helps other people to be prosperous.”— Source: From Mencken’s writings on social criticism and human nature.

    12. **”It is the dull man who is always sure, and the sure man who is always dull.”***Source:* From *The American Mercury*, December 1925.

    13. **”The education of a man is never completed until he dies.”***Source:* Paraphrased from Mencken’s writings on education and lifelong learning.

    14. **”Every decent man is ashamed of the government he lives under.”***Source:* From *The American Mercury*, 1925.

    These quotes showcase Mencken’s sharp wit and often cynical view of politics, society, and human nature. For full context, many are found in his essays and articles published primarily in *The American Mercury* magazine during the 1920s.

  • Carry the Bear Spray Around Me

    Which animal would you compare yourself to and why?

    The bear comes easy as an answer, and I guess I’m more like a black bear than a brown or polar bear, or any of the other species. Let me explain the ways:

    I’m fairly big and hairy, with dark fur. I can eat a lot, and I gained some weight for the winter. I’ll try to lose it in coming months. I tend to be less active and sleep more during the winters, almost like a state of torpor hibernation.

    I’m fairly docile and sometimes even timid, except when I’m not. I will flee threats in most cases, but I will fight back if cornered or to protect the ones I care about.

    What else? I tend to be picky about what I eat, but I like tasty high fat, sugary, and salty foods. I can eat a whole lot of berries. I’m not much of a runner, but I can sprint at times.

    I lived in (man) caves, and often alone (not always).

    So I’m somewhat cuddly and somewhat deadly. LOOK OUT!🐻

  • Costco is the Answer

    Where would you go on a shopping spree?

    I would spree shop at Costco, or any similar store in other countries. I could afford to pay the annual membership, and I’d get more value for my money. I agree more with Costco’s business practices than I do with Walmart/Sam’s Club. I currently don’t have a membership with Costco or any other big bulk store. I’d buy in bulk several products, including some new electronics.

    Fun fact: I had an encounter with the then Costco CEO James Sinegal years ago. I was working as a temp worker at a newly opened Costco, serving refreshments with other temp workers, and he greeted the temp workers at the serving tables. I recognized him before from a segment on 60 Minutes news show, and he seemed to be a pleasant enough man. American companies could learn from his way of doing business.

    It seemed that Sinegal retired soon after that Grand Opening of the Costco, but he’s still alive.

    Costco is the easy answer, Sam’s Club my second choice.

  • York The Dork

    What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?

    York is my middle name, and it was my father’s first name. I think one of my nephews also has that middle name.

    The name is ancient, and it evolved from the Brittonic Celtic word Eboracon, which I read means Yew Tree Place. It has British and Norse origins. Of course, there’s modern cities with either York as a full name or part of the name. British-American usage in the modern world.

    My first name means a channel of water, my middle name means an area of a bunch of trees, and my last name comes from one of the main disciples of The Nazarene. Maybe it has some significance, but I doubt my parents put that much thought into my full name.

    So yes, I probably have some British and Scandinavian ancestry, base on ancestry research I’ve done on my dad’s side of the family. But York is an unusual name in modern times. I sometimes make jokes about my middle name or middle initial.

    I had no idea how Eburācon became Eboracum, then Eoforwīc, then Jórvík, and finally York. They don’t even have much similarity, and I never encountered those specific words before.

    Yes, I had to use the internet to research the origin of my second name: A place of Yew Trees. What the hell is that?!